There are many sites which discuss the negative and positive
effects that pornography has on relationships. However, with proven facts, studies, research and statistics, it has been shown
that pornography has more of a negative effect on relationships than a positive one.
A website named Dr. Phil.Com has a message board titled, "How Porn Has Affected Our Relationship". Although debate can be good for most topics,
most of the people who go on this Dr. Phil Porn Message Board are women who have been negatively affected
by pornography. Some women are desperate to find answers and to find ways to deal with their own emotions, morals and beliefs as
their husbands or boyfriends use pornography either occasionally or excessively.
The last thing that women need is to read posts from people
who claim how 'positive' pornography is to a relationship and how 'wrong' some of them are who refuse
to have pornography become a part of their monogamous relationships. No More Pornography is
exclusively for women (and men, if there are any) who WILL NOT and REFUSE TO accept pornography
in their relationships.
No More Pornography
is a SAFE PLACE for women to come to and post about how porn negatively affects their relationships and to gain knowledge
and information on how to eradicate pornography from their relationships and their lives. This site is a safe haven
for those who have been hurt emotionally or who are still hurting emotionally because of how pornography has affected
their husbands/boyfriends and their marriages and relationships.
Feel free to express your feelings, advice and any knowledge
you may have to help yourself and others deal with this menacing intrusion upon society and our lives as we know it. As
this topic is VERY sensitive in nature to all who visit here, there will be monitoring of the
No More Pornography Guest Book at all times. However,
we ask that you use restraint in posting obscene words so that others may not be offended by them. We understand that many
women who come here will be angry, frustrated, sad and generally fed up with their particular situation.
Since this is the internet, there is always a chance that an unsavory
poster (a person who is for porn) will find their way to the No More Pornography Guest
Book either unintentionally or through another party. If this occurs, simply ignore the post. With
no reactions or responses to their posts, they will most likely leave the site as quickly as they appeared. But in spite
of this, you can still feel comfortable and safe here as 99.9% of the visitors on this board will be for the eradication
of pornography.
Remember, if your significant other is willing to take
the proper steps to remove lustful thoughts from their mind and pornography from their life, then you must also do your
part in assisting them during this time. Although at times it will be very difficult to do this, it is imperative
to the user's recovery that you stick by them through their mental and physiological transition. Forgiveness
is something that is possible and is to be done for yourself as well as for the user. Healing emotional and
spiritual wounds will be extremely difficult if there is bitterness and resentment in your heart.
